I know this is not the right category but i need men's opinions on this one?

So my husband wanted a child really bad, he's only 22 and he wanted a son and now he has a healthy 2 month old son. But he never really wants to take care of him everytime he's around him it seems like the only talkin is "shut up" or "hush" and our son is really a good baby, he doesn;t really talk to him it seems like he never wants to hold him, especially the days he's workong it seems like i have to give him to my husband or he doesn't interact with him at all. It seems like he's always pushing him to the side, when we're layin in bed and cuddling, he always puts our son on the other side of the bed.he doesn't get up if he's makin noises, like sometimes when they're havin trouble swollowing they're spit and stuff and they can't breathe for a sec and then he screams really bad cuz he's scared, he doesn't get up to check on him he says " i don't wanna er his ***" when he's cryin he doesn't really try to figure out what's wrong he says" just ignore his *** "he never rocks him to sleep, our son barely wants that anyway. Am i normal for fe3eling this way?? And is your husband acting the same way?? Does anyone know how i can try to make it better??