How can I begin a submissive/dominant relationship with him?

O jesus...ARE FOR REAL!!!! One why would you want to get beat up some more you have heard about Rihanna and Chris B( She is a fool if she does go back) anyways if he wants you to be his punching bag then one that is not a real man and two you need to go on somewhere else because if you didn't get the memo that would be called domestic violence.